Kubantu abaningi abafisa ukwenza ngcono izimpilo zabo, kungaba nokudideka ngomehluko phakathi kokuzithuthukisa nokuzithuthukisa.
Uyini Umehluko phakathi Kokuzithuthukisa Nokuzithuthukisa?
Ukuzithuthukisa nokuzithuthukisa komuntu kungahle kuhlanganiswe ndawonye ezindabeni ze-blog noma ezingxoxweni eziku-inthanethi, kepha kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi amagama ahambelana nezinto ezahlukahlukene.
Isibonelo, ukuzithuthukisa kugxile kubuntu bangaphakathi. Kuphathelene nazo zonke izici zobuntu bethu ezinjengenjabulo, ingokomoya nokuthula. Kuqokomisa ukuthi sibambe ukhiye wenjabulo yethu futhi kusisiza ukubhekana nemizwa engemihle efana nokuzizwa unecala noma ukuzisola.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukukhula komuntu siqu kuhlobene nentuthuko yethu yonke ngokuya ngemisebenzi, ukuziphatha, ukuqina kanye nendlela yokuphila.
Ukuthuthuka komuntu uqobo kusenza sikwazi ukubona izindawo empilweni yethu ezingadinga ukuthuthukiswa nokwakha indlela esenza sikwazi ukufinyelela izinhloso zethu.
Imininingwane engaphezulu kokuthi Ukuzithuthukisa
Ukuzithuthukisa kungasiza ekwakheni ukuzethemba, kusize ekunqobeni ukwesaba futhi kusenze umuntu oyindilinga ongcono. Kodwa-ke, kubalulekile ukwazi ukuthi ukuzithuthukisa kuqala ngokuziqonda.
Ukuzazisa idinga ukuthi sihambisane nemizwa yethu, imicabango kanye nemizwa yethu. Ukuze sikhombe izindawo empilweni yethu ezingazuza ekuthuthukisweni, kungasiza ukugcina incwadi yezindaba.
Ijenali ingaqokomisa amaphethini ekuziphatheni kwakho noma ekuxhumaneni phakathi kwemicabango nemizwelo, ekuvumela ukuthi ukhuphule izinga lokuziqonda kwakho nokwenza ngcono impilo yakho.
Isisusa sokwenza ngcono intuthuko yethu yomuntu siqu sivame ukuqhamuka kwenye yezindawo ezibalulekile. Kungabangelwa isifiso sokuphumelela noma ngoba uzizwa ungajabule futhi ufuna ukushintsha isimo samanje.
Ukudala a uhlelo lokuthuthuka komuntu siqu inganikeza umuntu ukuqondiswa. Uhlelo lokuthuthuka komuntu luhlukile kumuntu ngamunye futhi luzohambisana nezingqondo zabo nezinto abafuna ukuzenza empilweni. Kuyinjongo kuqhutshwa futhi kunikeza umuzwa wokugcwaliseka.
Ukuze uzenzele uhlelo lwakho lokuthuthuka udinga ukubona izindawo ofuna ukuzithuthukisa. Isibonelo, umzimba, ezezimali, ezenhlalo noma ezobuchwepheshe.
Setha inhloso eyodwa yokuthuthuka yendawo ngayinye futhi ufake nochungechunge lwezinyathelo ngazinye okudingeka zithathwe ukufeza leyo nhloso. Thatha isikhathi sakho futhi uthole ngokoqobo okufunayo empilweni.
